I often speak about chaos and the everyday mundanity of life. About troubles and banes. About the insanity of new motherhood and the accompanying weight of responsibility. I often unburden myself here on the blog and use it as a portal to bemoan my troubles, at the expense of you lovely folks. Venting troubles online... Continue Reading →
Ma Wednesday- Liking the dislikes.
Everybody talks of the beauty of being a parent. Many also share their challenges and hardships. But not often do we hear about disliking being a parent. Is it unkind, ungrateful and blasphemous to admit that I sometimes hate being a parent. Yes, hate. I often say to people how hate is such a strong... Continue Reading →
Ma Wednesday! Mommy pangs.
Ugh. This is turning into quite the mommy blog. I seem to write about Zoe and my Mummy adventures more than anything else. Apologies, if you find these mommy rants boring and repetitive. It's just that, even though I have a dozen (read half a million) other things going on in my life, this one... Continue Reading →
The struggle is real folks.
I have heard and read how babies are constantly changing, evolving. How they are fluid, and unstable. How their young minds and bodies are seeking individuality and uniqueness. That they are slowly but surely becoming "them". I had heard of toddler tantrums and terrible twos. I have smiled sympathetically at my cousins and aunts as they struggled with... Continue Reading →
A working mum’s perspective.
Lately, Facebook newsfeeds have been awash with stay-at- home- mum write- ups and blog posts. They call themselves SAHMs. Great. I love short hand. Sticking to the norms of nomenclature, I am therefore a sometimes-out- of- the- home- mum or SOOTHM. I don’t say “working mum” because all mothers definitely work! The articles say such... Continue Reading →
Ma Wednesday- A year like no other!
I was too tired to even think of a blog post last night. And on such nights, Lil' Z usually helps Mama by waking up as many times as possible. I woke up at 1:02 AM, 2:56 AM and then again at 5:13 AM. She is neither teething nor unwell, it's just how some nights... Continue Reading →
Ma Wednesday- Meet ZOE!
You folks have heard scores of "ZOE stories". Don't you want to meet the star of this blog? Introducing Ms Z aka Z/ Zoe/ Lil' Z..... 9 months old. Slightly crazy. Moderately stubborn. Extremely inquisitive. Almost walking. Selective eater. Mandarin connoisseur. Baby Einstein cognoscente. Master facial contortionist. Tongue- twisting, eye- ball rolling, ambidextrous maverick. Daytime insomniac.... Continue Reading →
Ma Wednesday! Gimme a baby- fall- proof bubble please!
All she wanted was to fall asleep. She shut her eyes tight. The more she willed herself to sleep, the more sleep seemed to slip away. Her insides were on fire. From her stomach, through her gatroesophageal sphincter, up her oesophagus and into her mouth- the acerbic, nausea inducing taste travelled it's chosen path. Up... Continue Reading →
8 Benefits of New- Mommy- Sleep- Deprivation Syndrome (NMSDS)
You come home. Excited. Elated. With the little bundle of joy in your arms. You think you are a champ for bringing a human into this world. You secretly pat yourself on the back and celebrate (in your head).Your sweet angel naps in the car all the way from the hospital to her new home.... Continue Reading →